Today is Mother's Day, another wonderful Hallmark Holiday created to celebrate those we call "mom." I think sometimes, though, people don't exactly stop and think about all the ways this holiday could impact those around them. The world isn't always so simple, and this year especially I am feeling a little sensitive to that. While mothers can be wonderful people, there's always some who break the mold of what our society tries to sell us as "picture perfect life":
1) What about those without mothers? Maybe their mother has passed away, maybe they were raised by a single dad, maybe a grandparent or other relative. Maybe they were adopted and don't know how to express those feelings.
2) What about those with mothers who were not great? Maybe there was abuse, maybe there was little love, maybe mom walked out on the family, maybe there were addictions, maybe there were mental illnesses that prevented their mother to actually care for them properly.
3) What about those who aren't mothers? Some struggle with infertility or child loss. Some may not have the means to add a child to their family even if they desire. What about those who have recently suffered a miscarriage and are still healing? What about those who haven't had that opportunity yet?
Just remembered that sometimes the things that bring you joy may not do the same for others. You may not even understand, but try to realize that there are parts of life that are complicated. Sometimes we just need to show love and compassion. Sometimes we just need to offer a listening ear or a hug. Sometimes we just may never really understand what it is like on another's life path.
Know that I am always here for those who are near and dear to my heart. We can all help support each other, celebrate together, and console those who need it. All the love, especially today to all those ladies out there.
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